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HOPING ,PRAYING

  Author: 754  Category:(Interesting) Created:(10/6/1999 3:52:00 PM)
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I am a hard working 20 year old female.let me tell you when I was in the six grade. I got real sick and I went to the hospital and was exam. the Doctor found cycst on my ovaries. They were small and nothing to really worry about. However, There was the possiblity that I may never be able to have children. In a way that made me bitter and it hurt like Hell all my life I had dreamed of growing up getting married, having two wonderful children and a dog. Yet, here was this doctor telling me that it may never happen I cry everytime I think about it! Here are all these people thinking I have a happy wonderful life and I can't ever have that happy life because I wasn't worthy enough. My soul hurt I see all these young girls having children and I can't I see them holding them babies and I want that to be me. I deserve that child. I could love that child unconditionally and give that child all it needs. I watch the news and see how these people are killing these innocent children when they could let someone like me have that child a raise that child and give love to that child..I feel so incomplete and so lonely. I can't get married. I can't trap someone i love in a marriage where there will probably never be children.So I spend my days hoping and my nights crying and praying.I want a child. Do you know anybody that needs someone to raise (adopt) their child. I am a single female,but I am able to provide for a child and to give it security and love and an education. I will be 21 next month and I am very mature for my age..

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Date: 10/6/1999 3:56:00 PM  From Authorid: 830    become a big sister of america.kids are always great if they're someone elses kid.  
Date: 10/6/1999 3:59:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 754    Thank you I really want onemaybe someone will help me
Date: 10/6/1999 5:14:00 PM  From Authorid: 221    Every one is perfect. A perfect saw cannot hammer a nail in. We as people all have problems, some can be physical some can be mental. Please know that you are perfect and all you can offer someone is your true love, but first you have to value yourself. If you value your self then you will know what you have to offer has value and you will believe in your relationship. First, be the person someone wants to love, fill you heart with love, compassion and alway be sensitive to others needs more than you are to your own.  
Date: 10/6/1999 8:11:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 754    Thank you for your replies
Date: 10/7/1999 8:30:00 AM    #3 reply is right, we all have good qualities to us, and I believe everything happens for a reason. Try not to dwell on it too much, establish yourself to be what you want to be. There are a lot of guys out there who don't want kids, if that's the route you want to go. If not, then adoption is always a good choice, or Lord know we need good foster people to take care of those children who don't have a real family or are taken away from their's for whatever reason. Also, you said the doctor said they were small and it was only a possibility, have you looked into it more? Maybe try for a second opinion. Just know that everything will work out in the long run, even if at this time it may not seem so. If you are determined to have something, i think each one of us is capable of getting it in some form or another. But, I would definitly look into you medical condition and get a couple opinions and go from there.
Date: 10/7/1999 10:15:00 AM    I feel for you girl. I am not very religious, but perhaps God has put you in this situation for a reason. Maybe there is a baby out there that is destined to come together and be with you. Patience is a virtue. I know it is hard thpugh...just keep it positive. By the way, I know many woman that can not have children that find a man to love them unconditionally despite that fact. It will happen, I can feel it. You and that man can adopt. Much love. Cree
Date: 10/7/1999 10:28:00 AM    I agree with comment #5. Please get a second opinion. My sister-in-law had an accident when she was younger and she was told that, due to the accident, she would never be able to have childen. Well, I am very proud to announce that she gave birth to her second daughter 1 month ago. Go girl, you have nothing to lose. Good luck.
Date: 10/7/1999 11:22:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 754    Thank you all for you support and you kind words
Date: 10/9/1999 9:01:00 PM  From Authorid: 928    My cousin had to have her female organs taken out when she was your age.
she now is 33 and has two adopted childern. and the whole
family couldn't love them any more if thay were blood. your
young take your time.theres someone out there who's right
for you and will understand you.God bless
Date: 10/9/1999 9:06:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 754    Thanks
Date: 10/9/1999 10:27:00 PM    I HAVE THREE KIDS AT THE AGE 26AND THERE IS NOTHING SWEETER THAN GIVING BIRTH BUT SOME PEOPLE ARE NOT AS FORTUNATE.YOU WILL FIND SOME ONE THAT WILL LOVE YOU FOR YOU.YOU ARE STILL YOUNG.THE GOD LORD WILL SEE YOU THREW AND HE HAS SOMETHING IN STORE FOR YOU.THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH ADOPTION.JUST AS LONG AS YOU CAN LOVE THAT CHILD.
Date: 10/18/1999 10:47:00 PM  From Authorid: 1051    this is a very sad story,i am alost in the same perdicament.i am 20,i also will be 21 next month and i am married to a man that can not give me a child.i know how bad it hurts...all of my sisters have children and right now even my younger sister is pregnant!
Date: 10/18/1999 11:38:00 PM  From Authorid: 276    ACCORDING TO YOUR OTHER STORY YOU CAN SEE IN YOUR DREAMS WHAT'S GOING TO HAPPEN. So are you going to have a child or like one of your other stories are you going to kill yourself....MR HAWK  
Date: 10/19/1999 8:00:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 754    hawk why are you doing this to me...God doesn't give me vision of my own life. I ...don't know
Date: 10/19/1999 8:03:00 AM  From Authorid: 277    I certainly don't think a suicidal person should have any children. If she doesn't love herself how can she love others. Read her other story if you don't know what I'm talking about. Hawk (Mrs.)  
Date: 10/20/1999 9:57:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 754    I think a child would give me what is missing in my life Hawk
Date: 10/21/1999 8:57:00 AM    Just some advise for you hon, get your life together first before thinking about having children. I have read your other stories and you need to get some professional help first. You've lost a lot of people you love, you've been raped and you are depressed. You need to get the depression taken care of, and talk to a couple of doctors about your female problems. You are right, a child does fill a spot in your life that is just amazing, but they take a lot of time and work. It would not benefit a child if they grow up around a depressed mother, they really pick up on your emotions too. If you can't love and want to live yourself, you won't be able to take care of anyone else,especially a child. They need 100% of our love and attention, so you need to be strong, which it sounds like you are that. We're all rooting for you gal, and if you really are determined to have a child, it has to be for unselfish reasons. Give yourself some time, you're still grieving, and get help. I don't think your sick or anything like that, on the contrary. You just need help getting over what you've had to deal with. I'm pulling for you, and am praying you find the peace you need to fulfill yourself. Good luck.
Date: 10/23/1999 5:24:00 PM    I AM VERY SORRY FOR YOU, I KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN THOUGH THE PPL WHO CAN HAVE CHILDREN....THEY TAKE IT FOR GRANTED. i DONT KNOW ANYONE WHO WNATS TO GIVE THERE CHILD UP FOR ADOPTION BUT JUST REGISTER YOUR NAME AT A ADOPTION HOUSE AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS I AM A RELIGOUS PERSON SO I WILL PRAY FOR YOU ALL THE BEST OF LUCK THOUGH........MARLAYNA
Date: 10/24/1999 11:40:00 AM    THATS KINDA SAD. DO YA THINK?
Date: 11/6/1999 5:30:00 PM  From Authorid: 1071    Just like it what the dad talked about at the end of the movie "Raising Arizona" about how medical technology catches up, when it comes time (you are married and settled down, cause children need 2 parents) your doctor may be able to help you. Also what happened to you when you were younger may not necessarily have made you infertile. There's plenty of women out there who were told they could not have children who ended up pregnant. Think positive and God BLess! Suz
Date: 2/18/2001 10:45:00 PM  From Authorid: 4263    Listen everyone that commented I am now married and about to have a baby of my own thanks for your prayers..The Author

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